I've cut ties from my parents because they're absolutely insane and are under the delusion that I'm a boy, and half of the stuff they send to me always starts with "when are you coming home", "why didn't you want to go to that mens-only private university we tried so hard to get a scholarship for, for you", or "did you find a nice wife yet", or "are you out of that girl phase yet".
You know, that kinda thing that tends to discourage from ever seeing them again. Especially since I know if I step back there again, they're going to never let me leave and set me up with a girl they found in an arranged marriage.
Look, I know it's real shitty. No one wants to be denied the right to go and see their kid sibling. But your parents are freakin' batshit. No offense.
Personally, I feel like you and my son need to go ahead and get married, throw yourself and him at them and yell that you're a woman and they can't change it no matter what. I know they're delusional, but holy shit they can't deny it any longer, especially if you get knocked up.
Well, there's no offense to give, since I constantly think that whenever I think of them.
Good plan. Just gotta actually, you know. Be able to afford to get married in the first place. And hopefully avoid him getting blasted out of the house since I got my windy stuff from my dad.
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But, basically. I uh.
I'm apparently getting a sibling in a couple months.
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I could ever actually see them.
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I've cut ties from my parents because they're absolutely insane and are under the delusion that I'm a boy, and half of the stuff they send to me always starts with "when are you coming home", "why didn't you want to go to that mens-only private university we tried so hard to get a scholarship for, for you", or "did you find a nice wife yet", or "are you out of that girl phase yet".
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And what's this got to do with the new squirt?
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But I can't.
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You know, that kinda thing that tends to discourage from ever seeing them again. Especially since I know if I step back there again, they're going to never let me leave and set me up with a girl they found in an arranged marriage.
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But uuuuugggggh.
Who knows, good things happen tho'.
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Great to hear you have a sibling, toots. Sorry it's on sucky terms.
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At least then they'll be spared the insanity.
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She considers girls to be a shame upon the family.
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I'm not siccing you on my parents.
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and I thought 10 years between my brother and I was a lot.
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But, you know, since I completely cut ties with them, they suddenly don't have to pay for anything related to me.
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So, maybe not.
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... I think.
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Personally, I feel like you and my son need to go ahead and get married, throw yourself and him at them and yell that you're a woman and they can't change it no matter what. I know they're delusional, but holy shit they can't deny it any longer, especially if you get knocked up.
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Good plan. Just gotta actually, you know. Be able to afford to get married in the first place. And hopefully avoid him getting blasted out of the house since I got my windy stuff from my dad.
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Isn't it customary for a parent to try to help pay for their kid's wedding after giving their blessing?
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...But fine. You got me. I'll figure out something.
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